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Reuben Houser

Therapist for Married Men Therapy With Reuben
Available this week
Specialties: Communication Issues, Relationship Issues, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma

Introduction

You don’t want to fight with your partner. You just want things to feel okay again. The men I work with care deeply about their relationships. They want to be steady, reliable, emotionally present partners. But no one ever taught them how to do that. They were raised to provide, protect, and stay composed. Now they’re being asked for emotional openness, honest communication, and vulnerability—and they’re trying to figure out how to meet those expectations without losing themselves in the process. If you’ve ever thought, I want to be a better partner, but I don’t know where to start, you’re in the right place. I can teach you how to stop blowing up or shutting down whenever your partner brings up an issue. It is completely possible to listen to your partner's needs without feeling like everything is your fault. You can learn to communicate your own needs without feeling needy or weak. It’s not your fault no one taught you how to do this, but it is your responsibility to learn if you want something better. The truth is, most men want love, connection, and peace at home. They just haven’t had the tools to get there. If you're ready to stop circling the same issues and actually build the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted—I’m here.

GENDER Male
PRONOUNS He/Him/His
RACE & ETHNICITY White

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Highlights

  • Accepting new clients
  • Available on nights
  • Offers free consultation
  • In-person & telehealth appointments
  • Accepts online payments

Licenses

  • LPCC #1917 (MN)

Specialties

Treatment Approaches

Population focus

Appointment types

  • Individuals

Communities

  • Racial Justice/Equity
  • LGBTQIA+
  • Recovery

Age groups

  • Adults (24+)

Languages

  • English

Faiths

  • Jewish
  • Interfaith
  • Christian
  • Pagan
  • Agnostic
  • Atheist

Payment options Free intro call available

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  • Psychotherapy, 50 min $250

Locations

In-Office
241 Cleveland Ave S Suite B3
St. Paul, MN 55105
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Frequently asked questions

Is Reuben Houser accepting new clients and do they offer online appointment requests? Reuben Houser is currently accepting new clients and can be booked on the Monarch website. Reuben Houser also offers a free consultation.
Does Reuben Houser offer telehealth appointments? Reuben Houser does offer telehealth appointments. You can request to book a telehealth appointment with them on their Monarch profile.
What areas does Reuben Houser specialize in? Reuben Houser specializes in the following areas: Anxiety, Communication Issues, Depression, Relationship Issues, and Trauma.
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