How do you know if your child is being bullied?

There are many warning signs that may indicate your child is a victim of bullying. As a parent, you should be on the lookout for these tell-tale signs so as to address the issue promptly. As you look for signs of bullying in your child, remember that not all bullied children exhibit explicit signs of bullying.

Some signs to pay attention to include:

  • Unexplainable bruises, cuts, and other injuries

  • Has few friends who they spend time with

  • Comes home with torn clothes or missing books and other belongings

  • Is afraid to walk to school, walk home alone, or partake in social activities with peers

  • Makes up excuses not to go to school 

  • Has lost interest in schoolwork or begins to perform poorly

  • Appears moody or depressed when he/she comes home from school 

  • Has trouble sleeping 

  • Experiences a loss of appetite

If you notice any of these changes in your child, it is important to talk to him/her to understand better what they are going through. You should also share your concerns with the school counselor or psychologist.

Parent quiz: Child mental health checklist

This 3-minute, online quiz can be used if you think your child is having emotional, attentional, or behavioral difficulties.


Need to find a therapist near you? Check out the Monarch Directory by SimplePractice to find licensed mental health therapists with availability and online booking.



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